Encouraging responsible behavior
Teens may lack the maturity to properly and consistently use certain types of contraception. If your teen is thinking about using prescription birth control, make sure to explain the following to help her select a method:
- Frequency of use and convenience. For instance, combination birth control pills need to be taken at the same time every day, while NuvaRing is worn for three weeks at a time.
- Tracking doctor's appointments and birth control use. Explain the importance of keeping track of doctor's appointments and discuss how to build birth control use part of her routine — such as by taking a daily combination birth control pill at the same time your teen gets ready for bed.
- Missed doses. Make sure your daughter understands what to do if she misses a dose or suspects that she may be pregnant.
If your teen is considering becoming sexually active, you might also provide practical tips — such as keeping condoms in a wallet or purse. Explain to your teen that use of alcohol and other drugs may affect his or her judgment and increase the risk of contracting a sexually transmitted infection.
The bottom line
Talking about sex and contraception with your teen isn't easy. However, your guidance can help your teen make informed choices that help protect his or her sexual health.
Aug. 03, 2017
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